Cultural observations

Well, it has been a fun past few days. On Friday I accompanied our friend Chris to a wedding for one of his long-time mates (friends). The ceremony was at St. Stephen's church in St. Abans and the reception in a the nearby town. But of course the day started in the pub across the street from the church, where we gathered with the groom and other friends for a quick pint or two (to settle the nerves...). The wedding followed the traditional Anglican order of service and yes, we did sing Jerusalem as the closing hymn. Then it was on to the reception - held at a place called the Hunton (I think), which is a hotel with beautiful gardens. We had a drinks reception out in the gardens - and the sun was out! - and then moved into a marque (tent) for the sit-down dinner. After dinner, we had the speeches. Father of the bride, groom and then the two best men did a tag-team speech. All the speeches were funny and good, but sadly I did not win the pot for the length of the best men's speech. I bet on two time slots, 19 min 30 sec and 22 min 10 sec, but the official time recorded was 20 min 40 sec. Too bad, as the pot was £84! After the speeches, the cake was cut, and then dancing commenced. Ian joined us when he got home from work, about 9 pm, and we stayed until midnight. Then the party moved inside to the hotel bar. We finally called a cab to head home at 2 am. The wedding was fun, but felt long to me as I didn't know anyone but Chris (and later Ian).

The rest of the weekend was spent relaxing in St. Albans. Saturday Ian and I tried out a new place called the New York Bagel Bar in St. Albans for breakfast. The bagels weren't bad - think Dunkin Doughnuts quality - the atmosphere was good. Several pictures hung on the walls - Times Square, the Statue of Liberty, Manhattan featuring the Empire State building, and a skyline. Upon closer examination of the skyline, it proved to be of Seattle - not NY - as it had the Space Needle in it! When I mentioned this to the owner, he was shocked. He had bought the print on Ebay and was assured it was of NY. He asked us not to let the word out in St. Albans, as most customers probably wouldn't know the difference. ;)

Sunday we moved our stuff out of Colin and Jo's house and into Chris's place. We then headed to the cinema (movies) to watch Hellboy 2, which just came out here. Monday was a bank holiday here in England, but unfortunately Ian had to work (the European markets were open). He does get to take another day off as compensation though. I headed into London to meet up with another friend, Bill. He and I visited the Tate Modern (a cool museum) and waked along the embankment towards Big Ben and Westminster. We met up with Ian about 4 and got a beer in a pub. Then we headed to SoHo and had an Italian dinner there. We headed back to St. Albans on the 8:10 train. A fun day.

Today I caught a coach (bus) from Victoria Station in London to Bristol, where my inlaws, Keith and Jill, met me. I'll be staying with them in Weston-super-Mare until Friday, when Ian and I move into the Bristol apartment. I got a call from the relocation company today, so hopefully all is well with our container. Will let you know how that goes!

Cheers!

First Impressions...

Hello friends,

Well, I've decided to try my hand at a blog. No promises for the timeliness of updates, but I'll try to keep you posted on our time here in England. I've been here nearly two weeks (Ian's going on 3 wk). The biggest change has been the weather: it was summer in NJ when I left, and now it's more like March! Of course, I packed all my summer clothes in the suitcases I brought on the plane, so I've had to be a bit creative with my outfits each day. :) When the sun is out, it is gorgeous. We've been having blustery showers most days though. I am glad I had some time at the beach in NJ before coming across!

I flew on August 6 with my friend Sarah and her twin boys, Sean and Thomas. They are 4.5 months, and handled their first transatlantic flight remarkably well. Sarah and the boys (and dad Steve, shortly) will be visitng with the grandparents for a few weeks.



Ian and I are staying in St. Albans with his friend Chris's parents, Colin and Jo. They have been fantastic hosts and have helped us much in this akward transition time. St. Albans is an old Roman city north of London with a train connection (so Ian can commute for his job with Lehman at Canary Wharf). I have been exploring the city and have attended the Friday noon mass at the Abbey (an ecumenical service - Roman Catholic in an Anglican church, with all denominations attending). Alban was England's first martyr, having been executed by the Romans in 250 AD for his Christian beliefs.



We have use of an old car - a GTI - to get around. I've been cleaning it up and it should serve us well, once we sort out a few problems. It has an alarm that can immobilize the engine which has been acting up - so we can't currently drive it! I have taken it out previously though, as we drove it to Weston-super-Mare our first weekend to visit Ian's parents. I am proud to report that I successfully negoitiated the motorways as well as a fair number of round-abouts! It still feels wierd to drive on the left - I tend to walk to the wrong side of the car - but I am getting the hang of it.



While we were in Weston, we drove over to Henbury (4 mi from Bristol city center) to see Wesley College, where I have rented a ground-floor flat. We saw one similar to the one we will rent and it is a nice setup. One and a half bedrooms, a nice sized lounge (with patio doors and a football pitch behind), small kitchen and a bath with a shower head. We will once again need to be creative with storing our stuff, but Hoboken was good practice for that! Move in date is August 29.

We also were able to see Richard, Angela (Ian's sister) and Amy (pictured below) on the Sunday. We are all looking forward to being able to see Hallett family more often!



This past weekend, we negoitiated the bus (coach) system for a trip up to Coventry and a visit with Ian's university buddy Pete and his wife Sam (we flew to England for their wedding last Oct). It was a fun, relaxing weekend and we were also able to see anther friend Joe and his 3-yr-old son Alex. Alex and I had fun climbing on the jungle gym. :)

All in all, we are doing well. Ian has been adjusting to his new role with Lehman, as well as the longer hours and longer commute. The hardest part is just waiting to settle in. Once Chris's current roommate moves out, Ian will take up residence in the second room of Chris's home (hopefully soon!). I've been trying to read some chemistry and fill my days, but it's hard to focus. There are things to be done, but most of them need to wait until we both move into our respective new homes. Watching the Olympics, cleaning the car, going for a run - these are the things I do most days.

Well, that's all for now. My email addresses have not changed if you'd like to get in touch. We have new UK mobile phones, so I'll get that info passed along as well. It was sunny this morning, but - oh, what a surprise - showers are now coming through. :)

Cheers!
Gayle (& Ian)